Wednesday, April 13, 2011

End of My Trip.... Healing my "Heart" Part 13

Dear Alain,

As we are driving along the freeways of France, back to Italy today, (and so
far away from my home...our home),
I've run across a talk by Neal A. Maxwell.
He speaks of being content in whatever is allotted to us in this life.
Wow... I suppose then, that my gift to you, and to myself,
is to accept what has happened and learn to be content.
He said, "Being content means acceptance without self-pity!
A friend of mine recently said she thinks there is a fine, fine line between
grieving and self-pity.
I don't know.... I'm still so new at this.
I think the key for me, will be to "count my blessings," (which are many!)

"Blessing brighten when you count them!"
(Love that!)

Elder Maxwell states, "Our response to what is allotted us is what matters."
I've tried to respond to losing you by having faith and trust...
He continues,
"there is so much to do within what has been allotted us.
Performance is what matters,

not the size of the stage."

My sphere of influence is somewhat small honey, but I will
continue to learn from your example,
living the gospel by being kind and helpful to all those I come in contact with.

One final thought I ran across said,
"when spiritually aligned, a poise can come, even when
we do not know the meaning of all things."

Love Donna



La Magnolia Bread & Breakfast
Cinque Terre



Cinque Terre is a remote chunk of the Italian Rivera.

























































It was exciting to be home and felt very welcomed by Jamie & kids!




Our last lunch together before we head back to Naples.



What a wonderful trip of a lifetime.
When I look back it is almost magical!
My grateful thanks
go to Shawno and Carol who treated me with such tender care and gave me space
to ~heal my heart!~

Monday, April 11, 2011

Why so many "heart" pictures?


I've had a few people who've seen my blog, ask me about all my
"heart pictures."

When Alain and I were first married, he and our daughter Aubrey found a heart shaped rock
one day while they were running together.
They brought it home to me and I was so amazed!
That began a tradition of Alain looking for, and bringing me rocks in the shape of a heart.
I've collected dozens over the past 14 years.

The bigger part of the story is that Alain gave it a lot of thought and came up with...
..."you find what you're looking for" analogy when asked,
"how do you find so many heart shaped rocks?"
On my recent trip to Italy, France and Spain, I shared this with my new friend Carol!
We shared much time on our trip discovering "heart" shapes and photographing them.
This truly is a time of healing my heart!

Monday, April 4, 2011

Healing my "Heart..." (back in France) Part 11

Tuesday, March 15

I think this was my favorite place.
Well.... one of my favorite.

Left around 8am .... heading back to France.
We are lunching in the walled city of Carcassonne.
Robin Hood Men of Thieves was filmed there in the 1990.
The castle was called Chateau Comtal.
All the locals got to play big parts and loved their town being called
"Nottingham Castle."
In the evening we arrived at the hilltop town of
Les Baux which crowns the rugged Alphilles Mountains.
As it continued to rain/mist, we walked around the narrow cobble stoned streets.
Up & down...up and down.
I think this was my favorite place to take pictures... so many cute shops!

We stayed at the Hostelle De La Reine Jeanne!
Before retiring for the night we ate in a cozy little corner of the hotel restaurant.
I will never forget my decadent dessert. It was the most delicious
cream puff with vanilla ice cream, chocolate sauce and whipped cream!
"Oh my!"

Michelle and I shared our own room on this night and
we had the cutest little room and bathroom.
Our room had a balcony and we left the windows open all night for a
fresh mountain breeze.


Hostelle De La Reine Jeanne



This adorable shop only sold "white" clothing. Interesting?




Outside our restaurant window
after a breakfast of juice, hot chocolate, fresh croissant and pan du chocolate. Yum Yum!


Used to be a castle windmill....


Walls where the castle used to be....


Men prepared for war.....


Battering ram .....








Outside the restaurant city... long way down!











Chateau Comtal


































Dear Alain,

After we got back in the car after visiting the Chateau Comtal, and tried drying off...(we've been walking in the rain!), Shawno said, "Winnie the Pooh and the blustery day!" That reminded me of the saying I often said to you when we were busy helping each other... I would say... Winnie the Pooh says, "Everything is friendlier with TWO!" I am missing terribly the "TWO of us." I think you would be proud of me... I'm trying to do hard things... all by myself!

PS. Could you surround our home in heaven with green rolling hills with rock walls?